Living Peacefully in a Time of Turmoil

By James A. Donahue | March 1, 2004 | 0 comments

As a theologian and ethicist, my research focuses particu­larly on how people find meaning and purpose in their existence. These goals are severely challenged in times of turmoil, such as the current age marked by anxieties over war, terrorism, and the economy. How can we manage to find meaning in life—how can we find inner peace or practice peace toward others—when our world seems mired in insta­bility and despair? I believe there are three critical components to living peacefully in such times: narrative, transcendence, and hope.

What do I mean by “narrative”? Our lives are a story we are perpetually telling ourselves. In order for any event or experience to make sense, it must be able to fit in, and be explained by, this constantly evolving narrative. This is extremely difficult to do during a time of tur­moil or chaos, when our experiences are often deeply unsettling. Much of what we struggle with at these times, and why finding peace becomes so elusive, is there is frequently a dis­sonance between the world we experience and the narrative we have constructed for our­selves. Our experiences are often so traumatic they do not fit into our larger framework for understanding the world.

How we understand and explain violence is a superb example of this. When we see violence, whether it is violence among nations, among social groups, or among spouses and partners, we instinctively seek ways to explain its origins. Is it explained as an aberration, a result of previous abuse, a manifestation of human nature, a strategy for peace? What is the story that explains the violence we see? We frequently cope with difficult events or actions by explain­ing them through some overarching false narrative or some story we received sec­ond-hand. Frequently, our denial or our self-deception is so profound that we can­not distinguish between truth and false­hood.

In contrast, a true narrative is one marked by such qualities as consistency, coherence, and continuity. Our narratives must be true to the world we experience, they must be able to incorporate complex realities, and they must leave room for ambiguity when their precise meaning cannot be known. Without the ability to distinguish between truthfulness and falsehood in our narratives, and thus without clarity about their con­structive or destructive function, living peacefully will continue to be elusive.

The implication here is that we must ask questions about our narratives. We need to correct our stories where there are inconsis­tencies, misleading coping mechanisms, and outright mistakes. This is the first step toward peaceful living.

In addition to re-examining our life’s narra­tive, the goal of living peacefully can be helped by considering the notion of transcendence. One common pitfall in life is thinking that the means to peacefulness or satisfaction lies solely in ourselves. In locating the potential solution in ourselves, we also define the prob­lem in similar ways. For example, we some­times blame personal or social problems on an intrinsic fault in an individual—in one’s genes, for instance—when the real roots of the problem are far more complicated. I think self­groundedness can become a form of idolatry: the self becomes the sole reference point for the truth and we are unable, in turn, to see the complexity of problems that are in reality larger than the self. As a result, we are unable to perceive what we are or are not capable of, and responsible for, changing in our lives and the world around us. It is for this reason that I find myself gravitating toward and being grabbed by religious notions of transcendence.

By transcendence I mean nothing more than the fact that there are glimpses of “the more” in an experience—something more than the self through which we can explain and come to understand our true powers and capacities for transformation. I am not refer ring here to any deus ex machina, but rather to an awareness of a transformative dimen­sion of experience where we find ourselves in the presence of something more than the self. We catch such glimpses of a transcendent ele­ment in many kinds of situations, from reli­gious experiences to our relationships with other people. The acknowledgement of tran­scendence has the potential to rescue us from the false narrative of total self-groundedness. It is a necessary step toward both inner peace and peaceful dealings with others.

Finally, peaceful living in a time of turmoil must include hope. Any narrative that is to carry us into the future and give us the reason and inspiration to make the world or our own lives better must be generated by a sense of hope. Otherwise, why go on? Why invest the energy required to create change? Our task is to discover the sources of hope in our midst and to allow ourselves to be moved by the dynamics of transformation that hope allows.

Where do we look for and find hope today? I suggest we look in everyday places and to everyday people. Stories of hope abound around us and yet they are not the grandiose stories that are usually captured in the media or elsewhere in the public eye. Rather, they are stories of people who have been able to create good lives for themselves in spite of adversity and obstacles that have been placed in their way. They are the stories of the people we know who believe that life is a treasure, and who aspire to make that treasure bring happiness and joy to others. They are the stories of our families and the stories of people and groups who are making a positive difference in their communities.

We need to look at the many stories of hope that surround us if we can only develop the eyes to see them.

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James A. Donahue, Ph.D., is the president and a professor of ethics at the Graduate Theological Union.


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