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The Myths of Happiness

January 29, 7:30pm
Berkeley Arts & Letters at the Hillside Club
2286 Cedar Street
Berkeley, CA 94709

Sonja Lyubomirsky discusses why what should make you happy doesn’t, and why what shouldn’t make you happy, does

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This event is co-sponsored by the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.

In The Myths of Happiness, Sonja Lyubomirsky isolates the major turning points of adult life, looking to both achievements (marriage, children, professional satisfaction, wealth) and failures (singlehood, divorce, financial ruin, illness) to reveal that our misconceptions about the impact of such events is perhaps the greatest threat to our long-term well-being.

Lyubomirsky argues that we have been given false promises—myths that assure us that lifelong happiness will be attained once we hit the culturally confirmed markers of adult success. This restricted view of happiness works to discourage us from recognizing the upside of any negative life turn and blocks us from recognizing our own growth potential. Our outsized expectations transform natural rites of passage into emotional land mines and steer us to make toxic decisions.

Because we expect the best (or the worst) from life’s turning points, we shortsightedly place too much weight on our initial emotional responses. The Myths of Happiness empowers readers to look beyond their first response, sharing scientific evidence that often it is our mindset—not our circumstances—that matters. Central to these findings is the notion of hedonic adaptation, the fact that people are far more adaptable than they think. Even after a major life change—good or bad—we tend to return to our initial happiness level, forgetting what once made us elated or why we felt that life was so unbearable. Lyubomirsky offers the perspective we need to make wiser choices, sharing how to slow the effects of this adaptation after a positive turn and find the way forward in a time of darkness.

Sonja Lyubomirsky is Professor of Psychology at UC Riverside. She received her B.A. from Harvard University and her Ph.D. in social psychology from Stanford University. Lyubomirsky and her research have been the recipients of many honors, including the 2002 Templeton Positive Psychology Prize and a multiyear grant from the National Institute of Mental Health.

Tickets $12 ($7 students, including OLLI, & Hillside members) in advance only, at Brown Paper Tickets online or 800-838-3006; $15 at the door.

This event is co-sponsored by the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.

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