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Podcast: Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say

August 9, 2012 | Happiness Matters Podcast | 0 comments

What to do instead of making empty threats

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We’ve all done it: threatened a consequence in the face of our children’s misbehavior that we don’t intend to follow through on. In this podcast, Rona and I discuss why not following through makes our kids insecure, and what we can do instead.

Please check out my podcast with Rona Renner either here on the Greater Good website, or here on iTunes. Happy listening!

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