Archive for the ‘Rewards’ Category

How to get kids to do boring (but necessary) tasks

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009 Posted in Changing bad habits into good ones, Discipline, Main essay, Rewards, Self-discipline | 28 Comments »

Self-discipline is a form of freedom. Freedom from laziness and lethargy, freedom from expectations and demands of others, freedom from weakness and fear. —H.A. Dorfman After much background material about why I was using material rewards before (habit + ...

Punished by Rewards?

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009 Posted in Changing bad habits into good ones, Discipline, Main essay, Rewards, Self-discipline | 17 Comments »

Like most parents, I used to (okay, I sometimes still do) bribe my children. Constantly. As in: “I will give the first kid to have her room clean a whole sheet of new stickers.” Life is full of undesirable ...

Unhappiness is a Bad Habit

Thursday, April 16th, 2009 Posted in Changing bad habits into good ones, Discipline, Main essay, Rewards, Self-discipline | 9 Comments »

The other day when I wasn’t giving Molly exactly what she wanted exactly when she wanted it, she yelled at me “If I can’t have a playdate with Claire right now, then I am never going to hug you again!” Made ...

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